I am going to preface this by saying that I wish these were unlikely
occurrences at our house, but the truth of the matter is I was just finally so fed up that I decided I needed to take pictures for documentation. These two particular events that I have pictures for happened three days apart. I remember that
JJ, Tori and
Braxton went through a stage where they used to get all the boxes of wipes in the house and get on their top bunk and and pull them apart one by one and throw them to the ground below or go to the
playroom where I had
efficiently organized their toys into bins( cars w/cars, barbies and
acc., puzzles w/ all there pieces, Etc.) and dump them all together into the middle of the room and then leave,as if that was the end of the game.
Apparently it was. Annoying! It seems as though the younger group are trying their hand at this phase now and I just feel like I can not keep up. I'm not really sure what the answer is. Yes, they had to sit in time out and Yes, they had to help to clean up the mess. They even lost an opportunity to go to the Park for the second
occurrence and we had a talk about what are other things that we can do if we are bored and need something to do. Cameron actually said to me when questioned about why they made that huge mess, " Well, we could not find you and so we
decided to dump everything." Seriously???? For the record I was dealing with a an issue with ALL of my older children in the basement that took longer than expected. I guess it was to be expected, although I would really like to think that it is possible for them to do activities that are not destructive when left alone for 15 minutes. Is that an unrealistic expectation? O.K. at this point I am clearly rambling on about my frustrations so I will post the evidence. Unfortunately these pictures can not completely show the scope of the damage.
This is actually the second event but it posted first. The contents of the pile include,to name a few things, clean laundry( about 3 loads) dirty laundry ( yes I had to rewash some of the previously clean stuff since some of the dirty laundry was wet-enough said-?)random dishes, shoes, blankets, toys, and what you may not be able to clearly see is that an entire bag of
fruit loops was thrown all over the room.
Ironically,or maybe not, I had cleaned the main level that afternoon.
Event #2
occurred in the girls bedroom just a few days before. Once again,ironically, or not, I had been doing a "mom" clean of the upstairs and was in my room finishing up when this happened. It is just not nearly as satisfying to organize bins and drawers the second time in the same day.
UUUUGGGGHHHH!!
May I never have a post like this again. (Yeah, right!)
Wow. They left quite a path of destruction in their wake. I don't know how you handle it: I'm so OCD clean that I'd go crazy! I'm sorry Jess--how frustrating!
ReplyDeleteAwe hun..that really stinks! But find comfort in the fact that you're not alone. Brewer and Roxi love to "play" the same "game" after we clean the playroom. I feel for you hun. It's awesome that you have the sence of humor to blog about it though. I just through a little tantrum and clean it up again. *hugs*
ReplyDeleteI'm not laughing... well ... I am.. but only because I feel you pain and It makes me feel better I'm not the only one who's kids pull these stunts.. Your kids have a gift! Why is it that as soon as a room is deep cleaned and organized it perks their interest to explore( by explore I mean destroy)
ReplyDeleteNow what would make me feel tons better if you say the same choice phrase I do when I walk into that sorta mess!
I so love your blog.. Mind if I add you to my list of people to follow?
yikes! the fruit loops were just to add insult to injury weren't they! LOL Just remember someday your gonna leave a room - and when you come back it will look the same. (At leasst thats what I keep telling myself) Thanks for the laugh though- isn't it funny when you get excited because you see someone else experience the same 'kidism' and then you feel normal again. thanks agian. good luck!
ReplyDeleteBeen there so many times!
ReplyDeleteCute blog Jess! How fun to see the kids now. You guys still look so good and so happy!